Sponsors are valuable assets in the life of a recovering addict. The fact that we are here, working hard to help any number of people everyday provides us with a measure of gratitude! But for the grace of God, there go I! This AA adage has been recited to me and by me (1000's of times) it seems! When I witness the suffering caused by denial, aggression, drunken behavior and terrified families I can not help but recite that phrase! That is why I refuse to use today!
(or ever again!!! One day at a time! Ha) The person who broke parole is on the run. Meth will do all kinds of horrible things, booze also! My parole officer friends,(I have a lot of them,)they all agree they would rather have a pot user than a drunk or speed freak! They are much more unpredictable. Pot heads are, well you all know that drill! Pass the chips please! all 5 bags and leave me some beer will ya? Gluttons! The 3 stooges and cartoons? We are not the sharpest knife in the drawer! Ha 22 years of bliss, life is good!Be blessed and blog on! Mr. Denny

Today all my guys checked in. Not everyday do they call or stop by the house but today they did! I examine each, sober today? Working? Family? Health? Wants or warrants? (They always chuckle over that one!) Gratitude is the topic we arrive at provided there are no affirmative answers to the previous questions. When we spend a little of our day"counting our blessings" I believe our perspective changes and becomes more beneficial to our recovery. Hateful and grateful can not exist in the same offering of communication. We learn to be grateful only after we are told we should be! New recovering addicts are not good at appropriate behavior. Re-learning life on life's terms is hard to begin with! We do need coaching and encouragement and correction and accountability. Then our hope is regained, optimism is rekindled and ambition returns! Look out world, here we come! www.acureforaddiction.com Be blessed and blog on! Mr. Denny

....as we do when we write our blog, others have the privilege of responding in kind. I received an opposing point of view from a reader tonight. When we feel like we are misunderstood, we may get "twisted" over it. The truth is that we are all children of God and we have a right to be here. If we were all the same, our world would be a dull, dull place to live. We would all have all the answers and there would be no questions. Thank heavens no other person has to live in my shoes. We all have a tough time of it and we are here to try to ease the load for the next person who checks in. Thank each of you for making the world an interesting place to live, sober!Be blessed and blog on! Mr. Denny FYI "www.acureforaddiction.com"

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...can recover if they have the capacity to be honest. Many recovering folks have physical problems which doctors administer pharmaceutical-drugs! The ability to be honest is about honor. If you truly need the medicine, take it! If you are using, be honest about that and stop. A good check is following directions to the letter and honesty! Does everyone know you are taking the medicine and is there anyone monitoring your use? Are you using? Your doctor should know you are recovering prior to administering narcotics. Be honest and accountable. If we are advising our medical providers with all the addiction history they should be respecting our decision to be abstinent. If you are concerned, get a second opinion. That is your right as a patient and good common sense! Be blessed and blog on! Mr. Denny